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    November 10

    我该如何面对我的将来

    在和一位朋友推心置腹长谈后,让我对我所想象的将来产生了巨大的彷徨。
    她,一个我一直很崇拜的人,一个我一直觉得很幸福也很体谅身边人感受的人,现在她应该更是幸福才对应为他有一双可爱的宝宝。可是她却告诉我其实她现在的生活并不像她结婚前想象的那么简单。巨大的生活压力,以及可怕的人言,让她觉得“当初认准的目标,无所顾忌一步一步往前走”的决定已经不再是那么正确………
    我现在的心情很复杂,的确我的想法还太幼稚,一味的认为只要两个人相爱就可以克服所有的苦难快乐的生活着……已婚的姐姐们告诉我结婚后不但要考虑到我们两个自己还要想到将来的孩子,甚至要面对身边人对我们的评论……
     
    我知道任何的经验之谈都是简单明了的,关键看我能否改变我将来的生活……
     
    拿着电话我发现我的声音有点哽咽……我不知道我该如何表达我的情绪……我不知道我该如何面对我原本觉得无所畏惧的将来……我更不知道我该不该把这种情绪带给他
     
     
     

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    淡水清粥wrote:
    很久的故事了  为什么我这还有你的小黄花 .....
    June 22
    weiyao luwrote:
    菲~表怕~ 你一直是很乐观的人~不改因为琐事而牵制~
    每个人的生活都不一样,别人不能主宰你,主宰你的是你自己!
    将来的事不是不能考虑,而是不要去想的太多~想多了未必是好事....
    顺其自然.......看看我,虽然也有不顺心的事,但我只看眼前事~将来么...没有发生的,怎能预料?
    Jan. 25
    weiyao luwrote:
    菲~表怕~ 你一直是很乐观的人~不改因为琐事而牵制~
    每个人的生活都不一样,别人不能主宰你,主宰你的是你自己!
    将来的事不是不能考虑,而是不要去想的太多~想多了未必是好事....
    顺其自然.......看看我,虽然也有不顺心的事,但我只看眼前事~将来么...没有发生的,怎能预料?
    Jan. 25

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